Source record CMC Political Work Department · 2026-07-02

自愿互助、量力而行，才是战友之间该有的样子

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Source-stated publication date	2026-07-02
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坦诚说“不”不伤情 ■林清享彭友章前段时间，陆军某基地某连战士梁鸿旭遇到了一件挠头事。那个晚上是连队安排的个人支配时间，小梁早早在心里盘算好：下周是营里的强军故事会比赛，利用今晚把课件做出来，争取拿个好成绩给连队争光。刚在电脑前坐下，同班战友小綦就小跑着进来了，一脸焦急：“帮帮忙，我刚接到临时出车任务，库房物资核对了一半，你帮我去统计一下行不？” 小梁张了张嘴，本想说“我今晚也有急事”，可看见战友满头是汗、急得直搓手的样子，这话就怎么也说不出口了。 “行，走吧。”小梁站起身，跟着小綦出了门。物资核对、分类规整、台账登记……这一忙就是将近两个小时。等小梁回到宿舍，留给他的自主时间已经所剩无几。他手忙脚乱地打开课件软件，只勉强把封面做了出来，核心内容没来得及写。看着空白的演示文稿，小梁坐在椅子上，心里堵得慌。委屈、焦灼等情绪搅在一起，可他又不知道该怨谁。战友遇到急事寻求帮助，自己怎么好意思拒绝呢？过了几天，小梁和小綦闲聊时无意间说起了这件事。“我当时光顾着自己着急，压根没问你的情况。要是知道你有任务在身，我肯定不会打扰你的。”小綦一听，满是愧疚地连声道歉，接着真诚表示，“以后再碰到这种事，你直接拒绝就好，大家真的不会多想。” 小梁愣了好一会——原来困扰他这么久的“张口拒绝会伤感情”，是自己给自己背上的心理包袱。一次谈心时，指导员了解到该情况，经过进一步调查发现，不少战士都有类似的困扰：怕拒绝伤害战友情，怕被战友说“不够意思”。有时，互帮互助就变了味，成了“勉强应付”。表面上客客气气，心里却憋着委屈，甚至耽误了更要紧的事。 “小事连着兵心，细节关乎战力。”连队党支部意识到，事虽不大，却可能会对官兵关系造成一定影响。他们研究决定，组织官兵围绕“如何正确互助、拒绝人情所累”等话题开展一次讨论。讨论中，大家思路逐渐统一清晰：真正的战友情，不是有求必应的勉强迁就，而是实事求是的坦诚相待、相互理解。大家遇到困难大胆求助，实在帮不上忙也可以如实相告。自愿互助、量力而行，这才是战友之间该有的样子。如今，连队官兵坦诚直白的沟通多了，量力而行的暖心互助也多了。大家在力所能及的情况下互帮互助，氛围更加融洽。

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Source text. CMC Political Work Department. "自愿互助、量力而行，才是战友之间该有的样子." PLA Daily (解放军报), 2026-07-02. http://www.81.cn/yw_208727/16471149.html.

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